What Really Matters
August 9th, 2008
there are the things that matter, the things that don’t matter, and lastly, the things that we convince ourselves do matter, but actually don’t. i used to think that pleasing everyone was not impossible, and to an extent, was important, and that all it takes to achieve that is simply a little bit of effort and compromise on my part. but i’m starting to see that it’s tiring. the tray’s getting a little bit too big. and i suppose it all boils down to priorities: who’s important and who’s not?
i spent the past few days fretting and being hurt and upset over something that i simply could not fix or help. i also spent the past few days trying to understand why people behave the way they do - why they tell lies, why they make up fictitious sources, why they cant just pick up the goddamn phone and reason things out, why the blame-pushing, why the ally-pulling, why the vindictiveness, why the claws. i canceled a couple of dinners and movies with my friends just so i could sit down and think about how i could solve this. yeah, i have two weeks left here in Malaysia with my loved ones and this is what i do. Martian comes to KL to spend time with me, and i thank him by waving him away to tend to this reeking incident that is built upon the scraps of self-indulgence and hypocrisy. talk about priorities.. mine are certainly all wrong.
so yesterday, Martian sat me down (actually, we talked standing up) to explain to me just how silly i was being. the conversation started with him saying, “i am right here in KL and we don’t have much time left together, but you rather tend to these thankless people than tend to me”, and at first i got so angry at him for being so selfish and disregarding the fact that it was important to me that this issue is solved, but as he spoke on, i realized how right he was. if there is anything that this whole incident has taught me, is that the people involved in this are so embroiled in their obsession of coming out on top, that there is just no getting through to them. it’s like talking to someone who’s senile. and i also realize that the more i involved myself in this, the more i am becoming like that too.
it all comes down to what really matters and what doesn’t at all. lately i’ve been desperately trying to salvage the things that don’t matter, thinking that they are important, but not realizing that i’m sidelining the things that really do matter. like.. family. friends. Martian. intern lunches at KLCC :D carl’s jr portobello burger. sleep. milo dogs. things like that. and for what? three people who don’t and shouldn’t matter? at first i was so upset that this fracas has caused me to lose three friends, but really, after thinking about it, these people were never friends in the first place. they are relationships not worth salvaging. i wish i’d taken Martian’s advice and told them to fuck off from the start. it would have saved me a lot of fretting, and i could have gone to lunch with voon, emily, andrew and the mechanical man today.
but like all nasty things usually do, this issue has taught me good lessons and showed me what’s really important. thank you to all the people who emailed and facebooked me their condolences and to all my friends who called and msn-ed to lend their support and to check if i was okay. it was really very, very touching and i am very relieved that the people in my life are not blaming me for what has happened. and then there’s Martian who always believes in me and knows how to set me straight. and A (haha), who is the kindest and most understanding person ever. and then there are my best friends who have listened to me whine and cry about this and given me some excellent advice, and my other friends who defended me when i needed it most. thanks, you guys =)) you’re the ones that really matter. i’m sorry if i have been very difficult or negligent over the past few days.
and one more thing that really matters : earlier tonight, some of my friends threw me a surprise farewell party :))) i was in such a crummy mood and wasn’t expecting it at all. in fact, i almost didn’t get out of the car because i didn’t understand why i had to follow sieutheng up to darren’s house just to get something that she’d left there. but she was like, “DONT YOU WANT TO SEE DARREN’S NEW APARTMENT” and i thought, hey okay why not.
i plunked myself down at darren’s computer and starting chatting on msn while sieutheng went to get whatever it was she came to get, and suddenly these fingers closed over my eyes. thinking it was sieutheng, i started swatting the hands away and telling the person to get lost hahahaha and then i turned around to see IVAN!! and then slowly more and more people started coming out of the bedroom and they all said, SURPRISE!!
T____________T
they even got me a cake that says “Happy Humping in the Big Apple”. hahahaha yeah these are the same bunch of people who got me that naked man cake for my birthday last year.
#1 my farewell cake is a New York Cheesecake. ha-ha guys… so funny…
HK later helped me scrape out the P in ‘humping’ so that if my parents asked, i could tell them the cake says ‘humming’ :D
haih i felt so emo. i didnt think i was going to have a farewell party because sieutheng bluffed me and said everyone was too busy. this beats a boring japanese dinner at South City Plaza (wtf) any day. they all brought food and ice cream and stuff, and we sat around talking rubbish like we always do. i love you guys!! you all make it so much harder to leave malaysia.
#2 i just wanna put up this picture cos sieutheng looks so cute
#3 this is us camming with Jon who’s all the way in Canada. that’s him telling us to be quiet. stupid wan! webcam with him also wanna tell people to shut up!
#4 see. he’s so weird
#5 this is everybody!
#6 this is everybody with Jon.. hahaha! we carried the laptop and put it amongst us the whole night. it felt like Jon was dead and we were bringing him around in an urn :\
#7 JON AND HIS INFAMOUS MOLE
#8 everyone in the kitchen pretending to help Darren clean up
polaroid photos from here on!
#9 me and the Parrot - we used to squawk at each other in Form 2 when we first discovered that she was actually a parrot. the Faber Castell parrot is her boyfriend
#10 this is Sieutheng, my angsty bestie! we were desk buddies for almost our entire high school life
#11 i dont know why Ivan’s face is all crumpled here hahaha but i still love him <3 he's my gal pal
#12 this is Jovann! the only guy i both love and hate. oooooh you should see us when we’re arguing - it’s like World War 3. ‘Holy Shit’ because it’s our new inside joke! it used to be Barcode hahahaha gawd why are we so politically incorrect
#13 let me tell you a funny story about Darren. in Perhentian i kept saying i was a lobster (i forgot why), and then when i asked everyone what animal they want to be, Darren said, “i want to be a dolphin because they are really smart” hahaha okay maybe you just have to know Darren to think that’s funny :\ aiyah the background here is that Darren is a know-it-all. you can ask him any random thing and he will know the answer because he’s like a walking encyclopedia
#14 me and the very pretty christine :D she has like five million x’s in her email address, but that was in 2001 so we all forgive her
#15 this is Jin Hang, whom i am almost as dark as after Perhentian. haih!
#16 this is Teddy, Darren’s housemate, whom i’ve met a couple of times. very nice guy :) future doctor too
#17 HAHA SAILOR URANUS & SAILOR SATURN! ah the geekiness of our younger days :D we were massive Sailor Moon fans, you see. actually i still am *shifty eyes
#18 i dont know why we call Chao Ying ‘Cow’, but we do *___* haih i tried to draw a cow next to the ‘Moo’ but it ended up looking like a pig. art skillz fail
#19 Haow Kang why you teach us bad words
#20 hahahahahahaha The King has come! hahahahahahahahaa quick ask me why we call Freddy ‘The King’!!!
#21 me and Justin! that :\ face is the face that Justin makes right before he throws up. hehe! there, that’s revenge for that car park incident
#22 this is Waimin who always looks gorgeous. that smiley is there because she once chipped her tooth eating pancakes hahaha! only waimin is capable of something so cute. i think she and wwq should meet up and take over the world with their cuteness
#23 and this is us pretending to be unicorns :\
writing this post and all the laughing in between captioning the above photos have put me in such a happy mood :) i feel better than i have for days, and it all began when i learned the difference between what really matters and what doesn’t.
69 Comments Add your own
1. cher wee | August 9th, 2008 at 9:20 am
u frends r really cute!!
2. Cherie | August 9th, 2008 at 9:34 am
I love how you can be so real about everything in life: coming to realize what matters and what don’t and all the mistakes we makes just to figure out which is which. And it really is okay sometimes, to be wrong about things, because ’tis life :) I think we all get too caught up in life we need time to settle our thoughts.
And you look like you have the awesomest friends! :D goodie goodie! Yay.
3. clem | August 9th, 2008 at 10:22 am
that group photo with your friend Jon ‘in’ the laptop is such a good idea!
4. Jared T. | August 9th, 2008 at 10:26 am
Friends are really things that we can keep forever.
Treasure it or we’ll regret.
What are u going study in US?
P/S : Saw u in Beauty and the Beast musical that day.
5. ym | August 9th, 2008 at 10:26 am
hoho..seems the rant that day is being resolved eh? I was rather perturbed by the wall of text that day which was “password protected”. Not of the content but cos the number of words. Phew!
Anyway, Happy Appling soon!
6. karyn531 | August 9th, 2008 at 10:31 am
So, why do u call Freddy ‘The King’? Lol
7. Ping | August 9th, 2008 at 10:36 am
so sweet of your friends =)
p/s: i agree with Martian too. don’t fret anymore and be happy ya =D and both of you are so sweet that can melt us who reads it ; )
pp/s: is martian’s duplicatable? (=P my own word creation) just kidding la~! =P
8. sweatlee | August 9th, 2008 at 10:40 am
clem, eh wht good idea good idea all we did that too during cny what have u forgotten that!! T______T
suann, eh i’m just one of your ‘other friends’ isit! *emo wtf
and polaroid pictures are sooo nice! if only they are cheaper..lalala
9. thegeekinpink | August 9th, 2008 at 11:05 am
:) see! you do have an animal! ;p but a lobster? you must tell me the full story behind lobster.
10. alvin | August 9th, 2008 at 11:09 am
cow is hot. there, i said it.
11. candyclarie | August 9th, 2008 at 11:21 am
Nice party. Hmmm i’m missing mine.. Hmph.
12. Farah | August 9th, 2008 at 11:43 am
Thank you Su Ann. Y’know, sometimes I see you like a singer; you just touch people unknowingly.
13. hui wen | August 9th, 2008 at 11:45 am
This is just such a happy-clappy post! :) I am glad you saw the light WTF, and shifted to the right priorities. :))) And I love polaroid pictures! I think in my whole life I only had one or two polaroid pictures taken. T___T Admit it! Those scribbles made on the photos, are they marker pens, or you used photoshop, hahahaha!
14. sheon | August 9th, 2008 at 11:45 am
i simple LOVE this post!!!!!
i went thru his phase of my life exactly 10 years ago……a truly defining moment in one’s life.
#6 sent me rolling on the floor…hahaha…so hilarious!!
p/s: contemplating on moving to the UK or middle east….or Aust…
15. angeltearz90 | August 9th, 2008 at 12:08 pm
Really glad that you’re over those people.. I read your protected post =/ so yeah I sort of know what was happening.. But I knew it even before I read your post.. =S
Anyway, don’t bother about those people anymore.. Psychos. Just enjoy the rest of the time with your family friends and of course Martian =]
Take care!
16. melissa | August 9th, 2008 at 12:25 pm
haha I heart polaroids!
I’m happy that you’re off the fretting, pinkpau! cos you deserve to be happy. =D
17. Gin | August 9th, 2008 at 12:35 pm
HOR u went n bought poloroid cam ah!! *O*
18. sieutheng | August 9th, 2008 at 1:07 pm
ur cow got no ear…phailed
19. smartypants | August 9th, 2008 at 1:20 pm
u liberated urself & possibly motivated others too by taking the high-road out of this fiasco. just looking at ur bunch of great friends speaks volume about u. this is such an encouraging post! esp after recent endless rounds of blogs & comments in blogsphere which manifested the venom in many. sad too to that some are so bent on taking the low-road. it is refreshing to listen to the voice of good. love those big happy smiles all round :)
cheers!!
20. grace | August 9th, 2008 at 1:22 pm
don’t care about those stupid stuff! because everything even the best stuff that 999 people loves, there is always like 1 ppl criticizing it.
enjoy your limited time in malaysia before you go to US!
21. dingying | August 9th, 2008 at 1:36 pm
true. i’m glad that you think that way. treasure what really matters. the rest ask them to go fly kite.
22. daphne | August 9th, 2008 at 1:47 pm
hey su ann. I hope you’re doing well. new york, new york! how exciting. :)
23. Teddy | August 9th, 2008 at 2:03 pm
Wish you all the best and good luck in Columbia. I may not have known you personally (mostly through reading your blog even before knowing you’re actually a friend of dyjx lol) from the few times we’ve met here and there, but your presence and attitude tells me you will always stay true to yourself and therefore become excellent
As we walk along the path of life we meet various people, some become friends we’ll always cherish, and sometimes we make serious mistakes and say things out of anger that we seriously regret later, while some may hurt us in ways we have never managed to anticipate before it happens… But what matters most is that we appreciate those who really matter and that we give our best as a family member/ friend/ etc
Sometimes we spend time and energy on people that don’t really matter, but that’s simply because we’re humans and we act according to our hearts just as much as our brains, if not more…
Nice to meet you, be happy always, and be another extraordinary Malaysian who rocked the grounds of NYC…
24. reallybites | August 9th, 2008 at 2:33 pm
eh are those polaroids from the fujifilm mini instax 7? did i tell you i bought one couple weeks ago but until now havent use it coz i got no film wtf
at the end of the day, u know u have tried fixing this and too bad it didnt work out lo.
25. reallybites | August 9th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
wtf im really bad at giving advice haha stupid
26. Patricia | August 9th, 2008 at 2:37 pm
aww, so sweeeet!! <3 it!
27. martian | August 9th, 2008 at 3:16 pm
why was there no campfire where people sat around and sang songs?
28. k0k | August 9th, 2008 at 4:11 pm
what is it that your friends have with risque cakes? such very nice people, though. makes me almost wish I have a bunch of friends I’m that close with :)
29. Michelle | August 9th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
Haha, spend as much time as you can with your friends, family and your loved ones, Pau. I pretty much realised that before I come over to Melbourne. I used to take my family for granted and was very desperate to move out to a new environment… But then, I realised what comes first. Don’t mess your head with people who don’t even care for you. They are just not worth it. Even though I tell you this, I think I might be doing the same thing as you are. I always care what others think of me. I always try to appease and make myself like-able but in the end, IN THE END, it is you that matters the most.
This is what really matters.
Stay happy. =D
30. B.H. | August 9th, 2008 at 4:28 pm
Since you’re heading to the States, perhaps you’ll appreciate this analogy. Your situation is akin to America waging wars on foreign land for endeavors that deserve less attention than the plight of the less fortunate masses at home deprived of education, nourishment and healthcare.
Prioritising is easier said than done when ithers’ vested interest is involved.
B.H.
31. kreazi | August 9th, 2008 at 6:28 pm
Focus on those who are worthy of your love and care :) Eh, thank goodness you didn’t slap Ivan’s hands away or what! Back in uni on my birthday eve, I was getting really pissy having to edit ppl’s work for an assignment, which was really sub standard work, I tell you. I was very particular about grammar, spelling and spacing, not to mention the whole assignment’s presentation but this particular housemate who was my course mate too just brushed me off saying that I should just close one eye and wrap up the work, which, well, honestly pissed me off further and I went into a really foul mood.
Wht really happened was, they were trying to get me finish my work soon as it’s nearing 12 midnight coz they were throwing a surprise birthday party for me, which I had no idea of, of course. I hid in the room after the assignment and they had to fake the phone ringing to say it’s my call, so when I came out from my room, they switched off the lights and there I saw the birthday cake and they started singing as well. Got me tearing and I felt so damn guilty for losing my temper at that poor coursemate :P
32. chm | August 9th, 2008 at 6:51 pm
crap…. have been neglecting reading ur blog dis past few weeks coz of coursework… n such a nice post awaited me ^^ nice party…. o yea…. HAPPY HUMPING!
33. yuhhui | August 9th, 2008 at 9:40 pm
Smile! Be happy! =) Enjoy yourself now with your friends and Martian.
34. the milkyland.blogspot | August 9th, 2008 at 9:47 pm
OMG! u leaving so soon? will you still write? PLZ write!
35. bryanlyt | August 9th, 2008 at 10:59 pm
awww how nice ur frens are…. (:
36. saRa | August 9th, 2008 at 11:10 pm
oooo.
polaroids!
love ‘em!
where did you get the film?
and how much it cost?
i have the camera but not the film :(
sad sad sad!
37. joiz3 | August 9th, 2008 at 11:18 pm
nice one. this post spreads joy. =)
38. ap | August 10th, 2008 at 12:11 am
im so in love with your smile wahaha. for some reason i have that tendency of trying please everyone as well….to no avail, haihh everytime it backfires on me i’d just crumple into a heap of discarded self-esteem T.T
39. tze | August 10th, 2008 at 12:42 am
whats important: ME ME ME wtf
i love u :)))
40. carol | August 10th, 2008 at 12:47 am
i <3 you lim su ann i’m glad you are not letting this bring you down. enjoy your time back home… it’s not much time left T.T big Columbia Clock is ticking. i would give you some of my energy if i could! ^^ *mwah* *hugs*
41. KY | August 10th, 2008 at 1:20 am
There’s no Carl’s Jr in KLCC, lim su ann!
42. abby | August 10th, 2008 at 1:40 am
goodbye su ann >__>
43. anony | August 10th, 2008 at 3:47 am
i am in no position whatsoever to judge recent happenings but am inclined to believe that you are the better person out of this… martian’s right. you should enjoy the time you have left with the people that matter and ignore those who obviously do not give you due credit or who take your friendship for granted.
best of luck in the states, i’m sure you’ll do grand anyhow :)
44. pinkpau | August 10th, 2008 at 4:24 am
cher wee : haha yes they are!
cherie : like everyone else, i’m learning as i grow older :) as for mistakes, i’m also learning how to be gracious with myself when that happens. baby steps.
clem : hahaha we couldnt exclude him!
jared t : and you didnt say hi!? not sure what my major will be. either political science, economics or international studies.
ym : YEAH you were the one who managed to creep in somehow O_O you really scared me ok and i had to shut the post down right away
karyn : thank you for asking hehehehe but unfortunately i cannot say :X i just wanted someone to ask me :P
ping : haha yes they are the coolest :))
sweatlee : no you are the most important T___T
thegeekinpink : i actually dont remember the lobster story…!! but my real animal is a cat
alvin : hahaha puppy!
candyclarie : that calls for ANOTHER party! :D
farah : thank you for your kind words my dear :)
hui wen : haha marker pen lah! how to photoshop all the smiley face! yes i do see the light now /wise
sheon : we live and learn, yes? :) OMG dont go to the middle east. are you talking about dubai? you will be miserable there..!!! censored internet!!! among other things
angeltearz: thank u :) i will
melissa : life’s too short to be sad, i suppose :)
gin : no ahhh i borrow from vvens wan
sieutheng : epic fail :\
smartypants : this calls for yummy food in new york.. :)
grace : yeah im beginning to see it’s not possible to please everyone sometimes.
dingying : i will :D
daphne : it is it is :))
teddy : i think of all the comments and feedback i have gotten in the past few weeks regarding this issue i’m having, yours is the one that truly understands me the most. thank you teddy :) you’re going to be one fine doctor.
reallybites : you want me to buy for you anot
patricia : :)
martian : cos no marshmallows
k0k : hahaha they are cute like that
michelle : wise words. thank you my dear :)
b h : thanks for your analogy. it’s not far off from the truth.
kreazi : awww that’s such a sweet story you just told :) your friends must have been so frazzled as to how to get you out of the room!
chm : welcome back ^__^
yuh hui : i will :)
themilkyland : but of course!
bryanlyt : yesss :) i love them
sara : it costs about rm23 for a pack of 10 shots. bought them in singapore!
joize : glad you like it :)
ap : i know what you mean :(
tze : i love you tooooo :))
carol : hahaha i ALWAYS need some of your energy, carol !
ky : lunch at klcc and carls jr are diff references
abby : byeee abby =(
anony : thank you so much for your kind words :) i fully intend to leave this behind and focus on the things that are truly important to me
45. reallybites | August 10th, 2008 at 4:53 am
no nid ler. how to pass to me. my book is still witih uu. blek
46. j0n | August 10th, 2008 at 5:40 am
eh if you meet scott schuman tell him i said hi.
47. Mabel | August 10th, 2008 at 7:15 am
Yeah. Don’t care about the ungrateful ones Su Ann. You should be spending the remaining time in KL with your love ones. Especially the family and Martian. :D Plus such a cute cake from your friends.
48. kimberley | August 10th, 2008 at 8:24 am
i loved the polaroids! (#6 made me lol) anyways, whatever it was, i hope you’re fine now. be happy, cause you totally deserve to be :)
49. YM | August 10th, 2008 at 11:09 am
Lol! I didn’t attempt at all. Just click on the blogroll link and voila, it’s all there. Was wondering if it’s really a bug error. :P
50. King | August 10th, 2008 at 11:39 am
Hail the Polaroid camera!
51. Samantha Poh | August 10th, 2008 at 12:16 pm
older men in their 30’s are always hotter than most younger ones. duh. and u hooked one ;)
i hope julian moves to US with u soon. nice to know u have great friends who genuinely care about u. leave the drama and everything awful behind.
just don’t forget me when u go :/
love u!
52. saRa | August 10th, 2008 at 1:15 pm
ah!
i wanna buy!
which part of Singapore?
would you kindly please tell me the name of the shop and location?
please??
53. Jared T. | August 10th, 2008 at 1:24 pm
Was too shy to say hi maybe? Haha!
It’s quite weird for a random person to say hi to u and say I’m quaintly reader right? Haha!
Maybe I should do that in the 1st place. Haha!
54. foreverjas | August 10th, 2008 at 2:44 pm
all the best! take care !!!
55. miss p | August 10th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
you have such nice friends~~
56. wenqi | August 10th, 2008 at 5:40 pm
why i don’t have polaroid picture with u wan :( i jeles wtf
i coming back this coming fridayyyy!! i really hope that we can meet up! shall talk to u in msn ok.. but ur hours very weird wan :/
57. Wai Queen | August 10th, 2008 at 10:33 pm
Hey~~
That’s Jonathan Lim Kah Meng and Ivan Shin!
58. RealGunners | August 11th, 2008 at 9:20 am
i saw a few yummy looking girls O.o
59. Simon Seow | August 11th, 2008 at 10:45 am
lol @ Jon. RIP. Choy and touch wood.
60. naeboo | August 11th, 2008 at 1:04 pm
i guess u learn that ppl who put u through such rubbish arent “friends” after all.
ignore ignore ignore!
61. ront | August 11th, 2008 at 1:26 pm
glad and happy you realized your priorities…hehe..
62. vvens | August 11th, 2008 at 6:44 pm
how did waimin chipped her tooth eating pancake?!?!!?
and i almost died laughing at the picture you said as if Jon was dead and you guys were carrying his picture around. HAHAHAHAHA.
oh yeah, better keep the polariod picture properly, do not expose them to sunlight or not the colour will fade off. i keep them in a name card holder!!!
63. pinkpau | August 11th, 2008 at 8:18 pm
reallybites : haih :( how like this!
j0n : jon i STILL dunno who he is
mabel : yes im gonna be doing just that :)
kimberley : thank you :))
ym : yeah there was a problem with my security. unfortunately the bug is still there and i have no idea how to get rid of it :\
king : yes! long live the polaroid camera!
samantha poh : but i dont want to gooo T____T im going to miss home so much
sara : the shop is in far east plaza, and it’s the first camera shop you see upon entering the plaza from the pedestrian bridge on DFS plaza on scotts road :)
jared t : haih dont be shy :D i dont bite!
foreverjas : i will :) you too
miss p : yesssa =)
wenqi : you no time to spend with me also :(
wai queen : hello hello! jon wnats to know how you know him!
realgunner : hehe! most of them are taken! dont play play..
simon seow : yaya touch wood T___T
naeboo : agreed :)
ront : hehe. im glad too.
vvens : hahaha she very weird wan lah! oh thank you for telling me T___T i didnt know they would fade! i just left them on my desk some more… urks
64. reader | August 11th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
i hope you get to spend the last moments in Msia with your loved ones :)
glad you got your life into perspective just in time :)
sending you lots of love and blessings :)
65. I would be at the party if I wasn't out of the country but oh well | August 11th, 2008 at 8:56 pm
hahaha the King has come hahahah
bye bye su ann. Will miss you loads although i don’t get a polaroid picture with you.
66. ront | August 11th, 2008 at 11:19 pm
by the way, you wouldnt mind blog about what you’re packing for US, would you? I had some funny moments during those years when i used to help organize new students.
67. LJY | August 13th, 2008 at 1:43 am
this is so weird, normally the Name bit of this Leave a Comment automatically says LJY
but right now it says
“i am a lucky guy because my gf is from hk”
WTF
*changes it*
anyway, i wanted to say, i am sad that you are leaving to the USA so soon because i have barely gotten a chance to know you (or rather, you know me :P ) and all this while, we have probably been crossing paths because i live in Bangsar and go to school in Mont Kiara and know the starbucks you talk about, and the Nero Vivo in KL and.. so on. :P
Nonetheless, i’m really glad prioritising is working for you *hugs* i have yet to truly embrace that - i find myself still sacrificing too much effort and time on silly things when i should be concentrating on others!
hope packing isn’t too crazy :P i quite hate packing.. and i don’t fancy packing for when i go to university! which.. i need to be applying to now that i have my results. >__>
68. wai queen | September 5th, 2008 at 2:49 am
o.. I think he won’t remember who I am.
We went to the same secondary school before.
That school sucks so I don’t blame him for forgetting everything happened in that school.
LOL
69. des | November 23rd, 2008 at 10:29 pm
hey.. i know that condo!.. welcome to th area ppl!..
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