Friendster, in the three years that i’ve been using it, has brought into my life 3 good things.
one of them is this guy :

everybody, meet Kevin The Beaver!
so it all started out like this. back in 2004 when Friendster only allowed 5 pictures to a user, i got a message one day from this guy who wanted to get to know me better. HAHAHA! why??? cos he thought i was cute!!! (hahahaha muahahhahaa sorry lah it’s just that the Kevin The Beaver i know today would never say that i’m cute :( so bad right)
anyway for some inexplicable reason, i actually replied his mssg very nicely, instead of sending out the ‘ewww go away’ that i normally do. so i find out that he’s a (then) 20 year old Malaysian studying aeronautical engineering in Wichita, and that he knows JK, my other friend from Wichita. dushhhh (new fav word)! so small meh the world! we traded niceties for a while, and after more message volleying, we exchanged MSN contacts.
wahhhhhhhhh wrong move, cos i always had to webcam with him after that. he would say, ‘wei cam with me lah, you cam with me then i bring you back Godiva!’
….. hmmm. ^_____^

but i worked for my Godiva, okay! he used to make me sift through all these Victoria Secret online shopping catalogues with him to help pick out stuff for his girlfriend. then have to webcam with him and listen to him blah about how boring Wichita is, how he misses his girlfriend, how he misses malaysia, blah blah blah.
and then a few months after we met online, he came back to KL for the winter holidays, bringing back .. Godiva for me! and lots of Victoria Secret perfume! which pissed his girlfriend off. yeah like whatever, i hated her too. see Beaver, how could you let her come in between us! now you know who sayang you more leh.
and from then on, everytime he came back to KL, he’d bring me back something from the US. the coolest was my 2005 birthday present, which were these 2 super short miniskirts that are exactly five inches in length. -__- they didnt even cover my buttcheeks ok!
we used to Dota too, and i remember i would always insist that we be on the same team, so that he can’t kill me. coz he used to be damn good at Dota okay. and it’s nice to Dota with him because he was sooooo patient with me as i was learning. he would give me all these little pointers, and the best part is he never laughs at me every time i forget to use my blink dagger :D sigh. friends like this, how to find?

this is the first ever Friendster testimonial he wrote for me :
Even though I hardly talk to her, by
reading her blog I can tell that she is
indeed a very special person. How
special? That’s something she has to
believe and find out herself too =). I’ve
never met anyone that can do the things
she’s done at her age and thus even
though I’m older than her, I still respect
her as a person a lot.
kevin!!! what ‘things’ are you talking about??? and how come you are not sweet to me anymore?!
it’s hard to believe we met through Friendster. if it werent for that Random Profile feature, and if it werent for a certain pic, Beaver and i would never have met. he’s one of those rare finds in life that upon meeting for the first time, you already feel like you’ve known each other forever. and he’s one of the few people besides my boyfriend who’s allowed to kiss me! and also the nicest person to go sanitary pad shopping with.

kevinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. sorry i didnt pick up ur call this afternoon :( was sleeping. called u back later and your mom said that you’d left for the States already. hope you had a safe flight, and see you this summer!! bring me back something nice, like a Coach bag heeheehee.
mwahs! be good.

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January 22nd, 2007
on this day, one year ago, i met a Martian.
we met at a coffee place while he was visiting Earth, but as it turns out neither of us were having coffee.
i found him to be a highly intriguing being, mostly because i didnt hang out much with his kind. it was a rather new experience to converse with a Martian, though at that time i didnt know he was a Martian. i knew he was different, and vaguely looked like a *something*, but i just couldnt place my finger on what that *something* was. identification and articulation of this something came only at a later time, in a bubbly outburst of epiphanic revelation – but that is another story and should be told another time.
i should probably be honest and admit now that i didnt immediately take a liking to him. i was very cautious, very wary about this Martian – i mean, who knew what his intentions were! Martians, as i have heard, can be very dangerous, especially when given the opportunity to be. and although he was friendly, he wasn’t warm. sometimes it’s hard to like someone who is cold.
sitting there in the coffee place, we talked about insignificant things. we talked about New York and its art galleries, we talked about haze and blogs, and we shared bits and pieces off the surface of ourselves. polite small talk, getting-to-know-you sorta stuff. i remember feeling slightly surprised that this was actually turning out to be a pretty nice conversation. i never thought i’d find anything in common to talk about with a Martian! this Martian is a pretty cool Martian, i decided. possibly a little bit mean, but still cool.
a little bit later on, he offered to bring me to his Spaceship for a looksee, and i jumped at the chance to. golly, a Spaceship, i thought! how bloody interesting! never one to pass up an adventure, i really did go with him to see. and it was a very spiffy Spaceship. not garishly metallic like one would imagine, or complicated in all its red-and-green button splendor. this Martian’s Spaceship was actually very simple. a beautiful kind of simple, a tasteful kind of minimalistic. Earthling artwork adorned the walls, and a black organza curtain hanging in the middle of the spaceship fluttered whenever the wind sighed. the whole Spaceship was made out of smooth cement. i wonder how it flew – isnt cement very heavy?
after that first day, we met up again for a second time. and a third time. and a fourth time. our initial meetings used to feel very rare, almost as if each time i saw him just may be the last, and so i kept count of how many times we met each other. but after a while i lost count. i have since learnt the joy that lies in losing count.
but soon, it was time for the Martian to leave. his stay on Earth was long overdue, and he had to leave for Mars. before he left we didnt have a final proper goodbye.
that was a year ago.
one year ago at this very time, i’d just finished school and was probably spending time with my then-boyfriend before going out to meet the Martian. but now- now being the 11th of August in the year 2006, now being exactly one year after we met each other, i am here in the Martian’s planet. i’m visiting. they have Starbucks here, and that is where i am as i sit here typing this blogpost.
i’m waiting for the Martian – he’s busy right now but he will be here in a bit. this wait is just a momentary lapse in time. and when he comes back, our interplanetary relationship will resume. he will give me 719 Martian kisses, and that is to make up for all the time and space that comes between us during the empty days that we do not see each other. the empty, hurtful days when we are operating on different planes of existence.
i am in his world now. i am immersing myself in it. and i will put up pictures.
August 11th, 2006